Stretch Your Vagina

As a fetish, vaginal spreading is kind of rare. But there are those of us out there who prefer our wives or girlfriends to have "big vaginas". This is evidenced by the abundance of pornography that illustrates women doing things like double vaginal insertion or taking huge dongs. Since I've come to have this same fetish over the past few years (it used to disgust me), I've discovered some secrets that may be helpful to those of you out there who wish to do the same thing, or have it done to you.

On Your Marks, Get Set, Stretch!

Starting Out...

In the beginning, you will need to start with just fingers or regular sized dildos. Especially if your partner is not to keen on getting a probing with anything large. Common sense will indicate that lube is essential as well. However, the entire key to reaching new dimension of wide open gash, is that the most stretchable flexible part of the vagina is the perinium. This is the section of skin located directly between the vaginal opening and the anus. When you begin stretching the vagina, you are going to want to apply your pulling or pressure towards the anus from within the vagina. Remember to do this while stimulating her clit as it can enhance orgasm for some women. Though be aware, vaginal streching reduces the spring coeficiant of elasticity, thus normal force on the penis or object, thus friction, and finaly thus pleasure. I present to you Ladies and Gentalmen, The Science Of Sex!

Be Patient

Increase One at a Time

More than likely, the stretching will take place over more than a few sessions and this will vary from woman to woman. As you progress with each session, try adding a finger or two to open the vagina just a little more remembering to keep the pressure of the stretch always towards the anus from within. Once you've gotten to a point where you are comfortable with a certain number of fingers or the dildo that's been chosen, you can begin slipping an extra finger from the other hand into the vaginal opening. Evenually you will be able to get most of a fist in. Again, this could take months, so don't expect to be doing this in a week or two.

Be Creative

What really worked well for my partner when she reached the ability to take most of my fist, was a special multilevel jelly dong. It has three "knobs" on it in a sort of tower configuration with the smallest at the top, going all the way down to the largest at the bottom. This gradual progression allowed my partner to "graduate" from one level to the next as she reached her comfort zone with each. Eventually, we got an even larger dong (about 8" in cirumference) that she now takes regularly as a matter of course. The most exhilirating aspect to this is when I enter her after she's had true satisfaction from that thick toy and I feel how loose her vagina is. I've fallen out of it a few times during sex! That is a special feeling indeed.

Psychological Concerns

Our culture focuses on "tight vaginas" as the norm, but this is rarely realistic. It also hinders women from being able to experience truly mindblowing orgasms. Most women can reach new heights of sexual pleasure when they are filled with girth more than length and this kind of play will show them that. However, because of the cultural pressure, your partner will probably feel some level of concern that she won't be as desirable if she's stretched out. You must reassure her that this is completely untrue. You can also make her aware that the stretching is temporary. If she goes without the stretching toys and excercise for a few months, her pussy will return to normal and it will take a while to get back in shape (stretched out).

Another Opinion

We have also tried this over a considerable amount of time (read a number of years), yes it is possible to easily stretch the vagina, but in our case it was also quite easy to tear the muscles on the side of her vagina, also once torn it was quite easy to tear it again, the interesting point was that she could not tell during the act that we were making the tear, only some time afterwards did it become sore. Generally this happened when we were in too much of a hurry and did not warm her up prior to a hard stretch, once we realised this we slowed down a bit and now I have no problem using 4 fingers lined up and have begun to insert the thumb as well, in my case we only ever used fingers and it was a real pain making sure my fingernails were short enough all the time, we found gloves just didn't work and solid objects were just not intimate enough. Was it worth it, YES, a loose vagina is very sexy and our sex life has improved considerably as a result.

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