Learn How to Masturbate (girls)
Female masturbation is like Big Foot, you know he's out there but no one can ever manage to find him. The majority of women masturbate yet very very few will own up to it. Learning to please yourself sexually is one of the most satisfying things that a person can figure out. It gives them something to do when they are bored, a release for any pent up sexual frustration and finally it's just a good work-out for your fingers. Because women are less open about their sexuality, it can be difficult for girls to find information on how to get off. That is why we're here, so sit on back, let one of your hands go south and read on. If you are still young, odds are that sex and sex with yourself are still fairly taboo topics with you and your friends. Because of this you won't be able to get an honest portrait about who does what. However, one thing that you should always remember is that a lot of people do masturbate; there is nothing wrong with you and you are not weird.
Find the Clitoris
The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's body sexually. It is located towards the top of the vaginal area as can be seen in the picture on the right. You should know this location on your body pretty well. When the area gets touched one of two things will happen, either you will feel a wave of pleasure or you will feel pain. That is likely the clitoris. This is your orgasm button. The majority of women who masturbate don't try to have vaginal orgasms (that is an orgasm caused by stimulation to the inside of the vagina). Rather they rely on clitoral orgasms which are caused by stimulation of...you guessed it the clitoris.
Play with the Clitoris
Find an area that is comfortable and pick a time where you will be free from interruptions for at least a couple of minutes. Whether this is your apartment, your bedroom or in the bathroom it doesn't matter as long as you can feel safe and don't have to worry about someone catching you. Reach down and begin rubbing your clitoris. There are a variety of ways that you can do this but it is best for you to experiment and figure out what feels best. Some like to go up and down while others prefer to go in circles or zig zags or whatever else. Apply an appropriate amount of pressure so that it feels good but doesn't cause you pain. Move your finger rapidly and adjust according to how it feels.
You should begin to feel aroused, you will probably start getting pretty wet and your nipples might get hard. Keep it up, this is a good sign and means that you are going in the right direction. After doing this for a little while you will probably have an orgasm. Many people are unable to tell their first couple of times that they had one. There are a couple of pretty clear signs which indicate that you did.
- First and foremost you will experience an intense explosion of pain on both a mental and physical wash over you. It will be fairly sudden and short.
- Afterwards you will feel relaxed, tired and relieved.
- Your clit will likely get very sensitive right afterwards and you will have to stop stimulating it.
If you experience these things then congratulations you have successfully masturbated.
What to think about
Men and women vary greatly when it comes to masturbatory thoughts. A guy will typically think about a girl he knows or has had contact with in possible scenarios and fantasize about the actual acts. Many women on the other hand report thinking about nothing at all or simply how it feels. Some do think about actual actions and sexual acts while others report thinking of people that make them feel safe or protected, such as being held by someone. Experiment and see what feels best for you.
There are a lot of props that can be employed while masturbating. There is of course the most known, vibrators and dildos. Those however are so well known and have so much more to them that they have a separate article. Rather the props I am refering to are more of your average household items.
Another common practice for women is to thrust against an object and basically dry hump it. Depending on what you like will depend on what kind of object you use. The most common object is a pillow, while some girls like using rolled up blankets, books, chairs, etc. Be creative, look around your apartment and think about what would feel good. Depending on what object you use you might want to consider wearing panties or something else while you do it you could rub hard with a cloth tht realli gets u gooing.